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Do video games promote violence?

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                                             “HAVING A GOOD TIME”

When I first started working on my website, “”, I wanted it to be fun, entertaining, and informative. I want to look at all aspects of the “Video Gaming World”.

The fun and entertaining part is easy, just play and have a good time. I love doing that.

But what about the informative part? Does that mean I only give positive information about video games? No, it doesn’t. I want to be honest as best as I can about the negative effects of video games, especially on our kids.

Please check out another post about video game addiction. I hope it will be helpful.

“Do video games promote violence?”

I want to be fair about this subject. “Do video games promote violence?”. I don’t worry about this too much in my life because I am an old geezer, sixty-two.

Mad Gamer.
                     “JUST ONE MORE LEVEL”

I might get angry because I am stuck at a certain level in whatever game I’m playing. But I don’t go beat up someone because I couldn’t advance to the next level in “Call of Duty”. I just load up another game.

I have enough stuff in my life to get angry about, but I can’t blame violent video games for my bad attitude or my bad behavior.

With younger minds, we as parents and grandparents need to consider this discussion very carefully.

Please check out the following Wikipedia link that deals with violence in video games.

Are violent video games making my kids more violent?

What are some concerns about our kids (or anybody) who play video games?

                               “REALITY OR FANTASY?”
  • Psychological: Some people, especially young kids or teens, can be addicted to video games. They may also struggle with depression, low self-esteem, shyness, social anxiety, guilt, or a sense of powerlessness.
  • Physical and Health: Let’s be honest, if someone is sitting around playing video games, then they are not being very active physically. Probably not exercising at all.
  • Family: If our kids spend most of their time playing video games, then they are probably not hanging out with their brothers/sisters, moms/dads, or grandparents.
  • School/University: The truth is sometimes kids rather play a video game than do homework. I was the same way when I was a kid, however, we didn’t have video games. I just skipped school.
  • Financial: Playing video games is not cheap. New games can cost $40 to $100 a piece. Consoles are $300 to $500 per unit. PCs run anywhere from a few hundred dollars into thousands.
  • Interpersonal Impact: Most people playing video games are not spending very much time with other people (I am not counting online buddies). I am talking about face to face interaction with a person.

                            “STRESSING TO COPE”

  • Finally, Aggressive behavior: Dartmouth reviewed 24 studies from around the world. The time frame was between 2010 and 2017. These findings were published by the National Academy of Sciences.

Video game addiction can be made worse when someone is suffering from some of these psychological issues. It’s not usually just one thing that causes our problems. It’s a combination of things that create the perfect storm. A storm that rips our worlds apart.

To make matters worse, they are probably not eating very healthy. A lot of junk food is consumed by gamers. Eating salads are not on one’s mind when trying to get to the next level in Pokémon.

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This can cause major conflicts in the home. The kids want to increase their time playing video. Parents, on the other hand, want their kids to cut back on the time playing video games.

Academic success can suffer when video games become the focus instead of school.

These costs don’t include monthly fees for gaming websites, gaming accessories, add-ons to games, or gaming upgrades.

Sitting in front of a computer or television screen is not personal interaction. Even though gamers have access to people all over the world, one can still feel isolated.

Researchers found violent video games contributed to small increases in physical aggression.

My focus for this post is “Do video games promote violence/aggressive behavior?”. The other concerns mentioned above will be addressed in future posts.

The subject of video games promoting violence is a very hot debate. This needs to be discussed by everyone involved, especially the gaming industry and our families.

Do video games promote violence?

Let’s look at some statistics.

                   “QUESTION EVERYTHING?”

Please remember, studies on violent behavior brought on by video games is limited. Please take these results with a grain of salt.

  • The American Psychological Association created a task force to review hundreds of studies and papers published between 2005 and 2013 based on violent video games.
  • There was a 2011 analysis of game sales from 2004 to 2008. Scott Cunningham of Baylor University, Benjamin Engelsttter of the Center for European Economic Research in Mannheim, Germany, and Michael R. Ward of the University of Texas at Arlington found that higher rates of violent game sales paralleled with a drop-in crime, especially violent crimes.
  • There was a study done by Brad Bushman, a psychologist at Ohio State University. It involved over 130,000 subjects. It looked at 381 different effects on people who played violent video games.
  • Whitney DeCamp, an associate professor of sociology at Western Michigan University, says the evidence points to either no relationship between playing video games and violent behavior or an “insignificant” link between the two.

A word of caution:

                              “PROCEED WITH CAUTION”

The American Psychological Association concluded there was “no one single risk factor” to blame for aggression, but violent video games did contribute in some way.

The task force stated, “It is the accumulation of risk factors that tend to lead to aggressive or violent behavior. Research reviewed here demonstrates that violent video game use is one such risk factor.”

They also said more research was needed to determine if violent games lead to violent criminal behavior.

It is worth noting that as violent video games proliferated in recent years, the number of violent youthful offenders fell—by more than half between 1994 and 2010. This was according to the U.S. Department of Justice. This trend is not what the opponents of video games wanted to hear. Kind of goes against the theory, “Violent video games, makes violent kids.”

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                                  “WHO’S TO BLAME, LET’S BE HONEST”

The finding said did say violent video games increases aggressive thoughts, angry feelings, and physiological arousal.

Bushman is a strong proponent that first-person shooters video games influence real-world violence.

One key question this study does not answer: Does video game-induced aggressiveness persist over time? Does it become part of a person and the way he or she deals with the world?

Or does it dissipate within a few minutes or hours?

                       “WHAT DO I DO?”

Good question!!!

Decamp said some studies have revealed a connection between kids playing violent video games and violent behavior. But there is a problem with “looking at those two things in a vacuum”: Kids who like to play brutal video games may have a predisposition toward aggression.

The real question: Does playing violent games cause a person to act violently?

                “I AM SO MAD”

Decamp did his own study. He examined data from the 2008 Delaware School Survey, which included responses from 6,567 eighth-graders. Among the questions, students were asked, “Had they played violent video games in the past year?”. DeCamp factored out the propensity to play violent video games (due to a natural attraction to brutality) along with other factors, such as gender and family relations.

He discovered that playing video games, no matter how bloody or how brutal, did not predict violent behavior.

Christopher Ferguson, associate professor and co-chairman of the Department of Psychology at Stetson University, supports this view. In fact, he goes so far as to suggest that violent video games may help reduce societal violence rather than increase it. This is definitely a different perspective on the relationship between violence and video games.


“Basically, by keeping young males busy with things they like” — and this would include everything from playing sports and collecting stamps to playing first-person shooter video games — “you keep them off the streets and out of trouble,” he said.

He added that newer studies “with better methods” have typically failed to find much evidence of a connection between brutal games and even minor aggressive acts, let alone violence.

“I don’t think we have enough science to suggest that playing video games causes violence in children any more than watching violence on TV,” says Ryan Hall, a psychiatrist at the University of Central Florida.

Hall referenced a vast body of scientific literature that has failed to find any strong connection between violent television and corresponding behavior. “There is no indication at this time that violent video games are training killers.”

Video games can have a larger effect than media violence because the player is part of the action.

Hall comments that fears about video game violence are reminiscent of earlier moral panics about rock-and-roll music, Dungeons & Dragons, and especially comic books.

In the 1950s comic books were the subject of scholarly concern and even a Senate hearing about their role in juvenile delinquency. At that hearing, forensic scientist Frederic Wertham decried the “endless stream of brutality” in comic books.

                                    “TWISTED STEEL”

He denounced one title in particular. He said it embodies sadistic fantasies that would be “particularly injurious to the ethical development of children.” That comic book was Superman.

Are you kidding? Really, Superman, the Man of Steel, the ultimate good guy.

What does all this mean?

To be honest, I was surprised there wasn’t more evidence connecting violent video games to aggressive behavior in kids.

Besides the studies I have mentioned, I also looked at other studies as well. Most of them had similar findings.

The basic theme of violent video games is they can be a risk factor. Not the factor, but a possible influence on a child’s behavior.

Although there is no hard evidence connecting aggressiveness to violence in video games, this still needs to be taken seriously.

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Our kid’s well-being is at stake.

Let’s be honest, it probably not a good idea to let a 5 or 6-year-old play games like “Resident Evil” or “Killzone” or “Grand Theft Auto V”.

Also, if our kids are spending most of their time playing video games, then this should be a warning that something is not right with our children.

If they are acting overly aggressive towards others, then we need to ask them, “Is something wrong or is there something you would like to talk about?”

When we single out one risk factor, then we run the danger of ignoring other factors which contribute to our attitudes and behavior.

Kids have so many influences today.

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Some good: 

  • Parents / Grandparents.
  • Brothers and sisters.
  • Girlfriends and boyfriends.
  • Friends.
  • School.
  • Social media (especially now with Facebook and Twitter).
  • Self-esteem.
  • A job/ a co-worker.
  • Our relationship with God.

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             “NEGATIVE SIDE AS WELL”

Some bad:

  • Parents / Grandparents.
  • Brothers and sisters.
  • Girlfriends and boyfriends.
  • Friends.
  • School.
  • Social media (especially now with Facebook and Twitter).
  • Self-esteem.
  • A job/ a co-worker.
  • Our relationship with God.

As you will notice the same things or people who are good for us, can also be bad for us. It all depends on how we use or relate to these people or things in our lives.

All these factors can have a positive or negative effect on our well-being. It can be one risk factor or a combination of many.

It can be so misleading when we try to blame one aspect of a person’s life. Especially, if we try to determine or judge how one acts in life.

                          “NOTHING IS FREE”

We are all very complex individuals. We have different wants and desires. We think differently. We have unique personalities. We come in different shapes and sizes. We have different backgrounds. Our life experiences vary from person to person.

The complexity of our lives and our being can’t be put into a box or we can’t just put on a label on our behavior.

For my finally two-cents worth, we must use common-sense. This human trait is severely lacking in our modern advanced world today.

There needs to be a balance, even when playing video games. Everything in life can be taken to extremes, not just video games.

                         “IT BEGINS WITH OUR INNER SPACE”

If video games are a part of our kid’s lives, then maybe we as parents and grandparents should take an interest.

You never know, there may a video gamer lurking in all of us.

Thank you for letting me share this post. I hope it has been helpful. If you have any comments, thoughts, or tips please respond below or email me at

                        “WHAT HIDES IN OUR DARKNESS?”

Grandpa, johnny, the Grey Wolf, Watcher of the Woods.

I hope and pray we take out our aggressions and frustrations out in a virtual world instead of our real world.

“Let’s Game”

Not in violence, but in peace. Don’t let a game dictate who we are. May a loving heart guide our thoughts and actions.

20 thoughts on “Do video games promote violence?

  1. My personal view on this: some games, like fighting ones, could desensitize the kids into accepting blood, gory and death as part and parcel of life, causing them to not be able to feel deeply for others, when other people get hurt, either physically or emotionally. So personally, I don’t like my kids to play violent games. 

    But I have found that even with very mild and ‘cartoony’ games, it’s also about how addicted the person gets. If you try to separate an addicted gamer from his game, anger comes in, violence may too, if he has found it to work previously. So it’s a matter of managing how attached one gets to the game. For my kids, I manage their expectation of how much time they spend on games each day, limiting to only 15 minutes, and that’s it. If they don’t adhere to the time limit, then that’s it, no more games for the rest of the week. 

    • Hi Joo, thank you for your comment. I applaud you as a parent by putting restriction on your kids video game time. It shows you are involved in their interests. More parents need to do the same. 

      You mentioned the addicted gamer. I am currently working on my next post about video game addiction. I hope you will check it out when I am done. I would appreciate any thoughts when you read it.  

      I agree video games can desensitize a person to violent. But so can movies, TV shows, or the news.  The sad truth is blood, glory, and death are part of our lives whether we like it or not. All we have to do is watch the news and look at the world we live in. The reality of our harsh world does more to desensitize us than anything else. 

      Thanks for your input. johnny

  2. Very interesting post. I was always curious about the research beyond the many many theories on this. It sounds like the research is generally consistent with what I would expect though. I enjoy playing plenty of violent video games but don’t ever feel like it leads to a heightened level of aggression in the real world. That said, I could definitely see how getting sucked into the impersonal world of video games could further screw up an already unhinged child (pardon the harsh language… I’m sure there is a more scientific description). Point being, if you are prone to violence, a violent video game definitely wont help lessen those tendencies but it also won’t create them out of thin air. Very informative post! 

    • Hi Josh, thanks for the comment. I agree with your statement, “getting  sucked into the impersonal world of video games”. This can also be said of the internet in general with our social medias. Even our phones help create an impersonal world. Next time you are the mall or a public place, notice all the people staring down at their phones and not looking at people that pass by.

      This is a major flaw in our modern techno age. It is so sad. 

      This is why it is so important we get involved in each other lives. 

      Thanks for taking the time to comment. 


  3. Great post.  I have to say, I’m surprised there’s not more data linking violence and violent games.  That said, I know there are many factors to consider.  I do firmly believe that, for some, violent games desensitizes the player to violence and the realistic graphics lessens the shock factor should they encounter similar scenes in real life.  I have no scientific proof but I think gamifying such actions and scenes leads to acceptance and familiarity (a “Oh, I’ve seen this before, no biggie” attitude).

    Don’t get me wrong, I think such games are a blast but that doesn’t lessen the effect they can have on the players and even observers.

    Thanks for the great post!

    • Hi Scott, thanks for your thoughts. Like I said when I started this post,  I was surprised as well. I thought there would a ton of scientific evidence supporting the negative. It just wasn’t there for now. After more research is done, the evidence may change. 

      I think what desensitizes people the most is the harsh world we live in. Just look at the news. What is happening to our world is real, painful and cruel. I don’t want to make things sound so bad, but the reality is the world we live in is brutal. If playing violent video games contribute to that then we need to address this. 

      Thanks for your comment. 


  4. Gaming with Grandpa, very interesting topic and definitely a unique niche! I really like the look and feel of your website, kudos. Sonic the Hedgehog to start it off, love it. Good question in regard to violence. I suppose it depends on the individual perhaps. Great list of concerns, it really brings awareness to the subject. I think one of the most challenging aspects for kids is the addiction part, and I can’t believe these video game companies charge real money for in-game upgrades, Great, diabolical, business they have going. Thank you for the post, well done.

    • Hi Pentrental

      Thank you for your comments. I love the “Sonic the Hedgehog” too. I still have about a half a dozen video games based on his character. 

      I am glad you like the layout of the website. I was concerned about the black background, but it seems to make the pages pop out more, especially with the contrasting colors. 

      I know subjects like violence and addiction are not fun topics to write or talk about in the gaming world. Our culture in America likes to focus on great we think we are and ignore how bad we can be. Even video games can take their toll on people when taken to the extreme. This can happen with anything in life, not just video games. 

      Gaming companies first priority is profit. This is true with any business. Remember the old saying, “The love of money is the root of evil, not the money itself”. How true, how true. 

      Pentrental, I appreciate you stopping by. Hope to hear from you again. 

      johnny, the Grey Wolf, watcher of the woods. 

  5. Well my thirteen year old son is near enough addicted to his Playstation 4 at the moment – constantly online with his mates in various war games (COD or Fortnight). 

    To be honest they are all nice kids, and not violent in real life in any way. 

    More often than not I feel that violence is already in a child, especially a teenager, and video games or movies seem to be a common and easy blaming tool. Do you agree (somewhat)?

    • Hi Chris, 

      I do agree with you blaming others or something else is our default setting it seems like. Video games and movies are easy targets for critics. Our culture has moved away from taking responsibility for our own actions. We love the blame game. 

      Now, with that being said, the gaming companies need to be held accountable as well. I don’t want the government telling me what to play or watch. But young kids don’t need to be exposed to “anything goes” attitude. It is sad but true, but profits in any business are king. 

      Censoring video games is necessary so parents can protect their kids from games with an adult theme. I have another post about the video game rating system you may want to check out. 

      As you stated, violent video games like COD and Fortnite don’t make kids violent. Do kids prone to violence play violent video games? Of course, they do. But non-violent kids play them too. 

      I was wondering Chris, do you play video games with your son? 

      Thanks for your comments. 

      johnny, the Grey Wolf, watcher of the woods. 

  6. Hi Johnny,

    You have addressed a great modern-day issue. To be honest I don’t fully trust the studies carried out by private or government institutions on the effects of gaming. In this matter, I only prefer to believe what I see. 

    It’s not just about whether kids playing video games promote violence. 

    It’s about an unrealistic belief of a violent world, the kids nurture from a young age, by playing video games. They think of the real world as the same as the virtual world, where violence is a part of daily life, which isn’t true.  

    Due to this, I prefer my kid play only those video games which that has knowledgeable or educational stuff rather than violence. 

    Please keep on sharing such thoughtful articles.



    • Hi Nick, 

      Thanks for your comments. There is something wrong if a child views real life through the lens of a video game. That is not reality. But the truth is this is a violent world. Just look at the news. Violence has been part of our world ever since Cain bashed in Abel’s head. I wish it was different. 

      Violence is not always physical either. It can be mental or emotional. Sometimes more damage is done by what we say than what we do. 

      Violence in a video game is not real, violence in the real world is real. Violence may not be a daily part of your or my life but it is part of our world. 

      I don’t want to get into them, but there are plenty of statistics about rape, murder, abuse, and violence in our world that proves our violent nature.  

      I agree violent video games can desensitize a person to violence. But so can what we watch or do. There are so many factors involved in this subject. The video gaming industry does have some responsibility and they need to police themselves very carefully. But this needs to be done in every aspect of our lives. 

      The sad truth is violent is part of our world, it is part of our lives or lives of people we know. 

      Nick, I applaud you for monitoring what your kids play. You do what a lot of parents fail to do. Good job. 

      Thank you, 

      johnny, the Grey Wolf, watcher of the woods. 

  7. I have some personal experience with this. I have found myself fighting frustration, anger, and agitation when I devote considerable time to video games during the day. Everything is good in moderation, right? I have also had experiences where video games were a euphoric bliss with my buddies and I. It’s about balance and discipline. It can be easier said than done. i am eager to hear other’s opinions on the matter.


    • Hi Ben, 

      Thanks for your comments. I like your contrasting gaming experiences from bad to good. I know I get frustrated when I get stuck at a certain level in a game. I want to throw the controller through the TV screen.  

      You are correct about doing things in moderation no matter what it is. Even drinking water can kill you if done excessively. It can be hard to discipline one’s self. I know I struggle with this as well. 

      Do you still play video games? If you do, what kind do you play? 

      Have a good day, Ben. 

      johnny, the Grey Wolf, watcher of the woods. 

  8. Interesting stuff here. I do think video games promote violence to a certain degree, but they can also promote good things too, if that makes sense. I think it’s the same with movies, shows etc. . .

    But I also think that if someone is raised right and doesn’t naturally have violent tendencies, then they probably wouldn’t be influenced by games too much.

    • Hi Nate, 

      I agree with you. Video games can be a positive influence, but they can have negative influences as well. I think the facts in this post points this out. As you said, movies and TV shows can contribute to our negative thinking and emotions. 

      Raising kids is hard and complicated. With some kids, video games can be helpful, with other kids they can make matters worse. I think a lot of it depends on the kids and the parent’s involvement in their kids lives. Video games should never be used as a tool to raise our kids. That is our job as parents. 

      I really appreciate your thoughts, Nate. 

      Do you play video games? If so, what are some of your favorites? 

      johnny, the Grey Wolf, watcher of the woods.   

  9. My wife actually is a middle school teacher so she deals with kids that are very into video games so I’ve heard some of the stories….

    She told me that one of her kids stays up till 3AM and then falls asleep at school, makes sense… but to me I’d say this has a lot to do with the kids parents not taking enough control and making it so video games can’t be played using parental controls.

    Also I feel like to many parents use video games for their kids as a way of free babysitting… I don’t know if you agree with that but that’s at least what I see. I know this is a bit off track from your main point but if parents paid more attention to their kids and what games they play while they’re still developing this could only help with their aggression…

    Violent video games also make kids numb to the fact that violence is bad. Hopefully that makes sense… like since they see it so much they start thinking it’s part of real life?

    My personal opinion is that multiple factors CAUSED by video games leads to increased violence with younger generations.

    • Hi Josh, 

      I agree with all you pointed out. Video games are used as babysitters. Before video games, television was used the same way and still is. Also, almost every kid nowadays has a cell phone. 

      I hate to say this but violence is part of our real life. Look at the news every day. The violence in video games is nothing compared to destruction in the real world. Just because we may not see the violence in our own lives doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. 

      However, we as parents do need to protect our kids from the constant bombardment from every form of attack, whether it be from video games, movies, schools, jobs, churches, friends, or even our own family. The violent abuse of kids in their own homes is 1000 times worse than any video game. Video game violence is not real no matter how realistic it looks.  

      Your story about the kid staying up till 3:00 AM playing video games is sad. But it is not the video game’s fault. Where are parents in this situation? 

      Everyone involved in this needs to be held accountable. This includes the gaming industry, our social media, our entertainment venues, our kids, and yes the parents. Before we can address this issue, then we need to be honest about ourselves. Learning the difference between right and wrong should be the burden of each individual, not a game. 

      Thanks for your comments, Josh. 

      johnny, the Grey Wolf, watcher of the woods. 

  10. Oh my god I love the part where you said: “The truth is sometimes kids rather play a video game than do homework. I was the same way when I was a kid, however, we didn’t have video games. I just skipped school.” I think everything should be put in perspective and that the tendency of becoming violent already should be somewhere inside of you to become even more violent. I’ve played an awful lot of games in my life already, same as my brother. And I see that he can get very aggressive, and I just don’t, if it starts bothering me I just turn off the console and go outside. He becomes violent during or after playing the game. But he also gets really violent when people mistreat him in his daily life. So it’s just something that’s inside of him. Which doesn’t mean that I’m completely pro gaming and that you should let your kids just play about anything they’d want. Life also happens ;).

    • Hi Virendra, 

      I did the same thing, skipped school. I guess you and I turned out okay. 

      I am like your brother, I get frustrated and mad when I get stuck at a certain level in the game I am playing. I also get that same way when I am mistreated or done wrong. 

      I agree parents shouldn’t let their kids play anything available, especially younger kids. We do need guidelines that rate video games. That is why we have the ESRB rating system now. 

      But all the blame should not be dumped on the game or the kids. Some of it is the parent’s responsibility. This is why we as parents need to pay attention to what our kids are watching and playing. 

      Like you said, “Life happens, the good and the bad”.  

      Thanks for your comments, Virenda. 

      johnny, the Grey Wolf, watcher of the woods. 

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